Dear Carolyn: Is it ever okay to reach out to an ex for closure? We broke up this summer, very suddenly. Im not sure if it would even help, but Ive had a hard time moving on and I suspect part of this is about how fast it all felt and how I feel like I didnt say everything I wanted to say.
It seems like everyone under the sun says its a terrible idea to reach out to an ex and break no contact, and that closure isnt real, so dont bother.
Whats your take? Can it ever help to get back in touch with an ex for a closure conversation? Is closure even real? Not Moving On
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