Dear Carolyn: My sisters husband confessed to an online affair and apparently is going through a major midlife crisis. My poor sister is of course stressed and worried, although they are doing marriage counseling and he is also doing counseling himself (I think).
The problem is we (my mom and I, were a very close-knit bunch) now hate this guys guts. We were never crazy about him hes selfish, rude, etc. but tolerated him because he made my sister happy. Now hes not even doing that.
So if they stay together, whats the best way to deal with him? Because its going to be really hard to deal with him after all of this. Hate His Guts