You don’t have to fight to resolve problems



November 25, 2019 - 9:56 AM

Dear Carolyn: My boyfriend and I have been together a year and a half, and are thinking about getting engaged.

But we have never gotten into a fight or anything approaching a fight. Is that a red flag? Does that mean we are avoiding our problems, or are we just good at conflict resolution?

I’m definitely past the “honeymoon” stage and know he’s not perfect (because nobody is), but nothing he does seems to bother me to the point where I’d start a major argument with him.

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