Hi, Carolyn: Can you will yourself to like someone? My sister is dating someone who annoys me. I don’t think I’ll ever like him. I’m hoping they break up, but it’s stressful for my sister…

Dear Carolyn: My sister’s husband confessed to an online affair and apparently is going through a major midlife crisis. My poor sister is of course stressed and worried, although they are doing marriage counseling and…

Dear Carolyn: My sister sent my grade-school child a check as a gift. We deposited it four weeks later, and it bounced because the account was closed. It’s a small sum, $25, and the charge…