Dear Carolyn: My husband is overweight. Fine. I still find him attractive and have no issue with his weight if hes healthy.
My problem is with his attitude toward his weight. He doesnt like being heavy. Fine. He wants to lose weight. Fine. He says he needs to find ways to work out. Fine.
He says those ways NEED to include me or he wont be successful, that he wont do it. He needs someone to work out with or he wont feel inclined to do it. Can you see where this is going?