Hi, Carolyn: My boyfriend and I are very much in love and plan to settle down, marry and have kids someday.
However, his plans change all the time. One minute he says we could move to a different country to study together, the next he is saying he isn’t sure he wants that anymore. Or he could say something like, I should pursue my dreams and he should pursue his and we will meet up and settle down. At the moment, he is saying he isn’t sure of us traveling together anymore and I might have to go first, and he would come meet me.
Also, he isn’t ready to meet my parents because they are in a different city and he isn’t ready to come down.
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