Hi, Carolyn: My husband and I are getting divorced. We have lived like roommates for years, but it all came to an end when he started blaming me for most of our problems, began an emotional affair and kept lying about it when I caught him. Ive moved ahead with finding an attorney.
He finally apologized for how things ended, but its unclear to me what hes really sorry for the lying and getting caught, the affair itself or how he was treating me.
Everything is moving so quickly. Were not compatible and maybe never were, so this will be a good thing for us. However, I do still care about him and believe his mental health issues were at least partly to blame for his behavior.