Hi, Carolyn: Can you will yourself to like someone? My sister is dating someone who annoys me. I dont think Ill ever like him. Im hoping they break up, but its stressful for my sister because she wants all of us to hang out. She can sense I dont like him, but I dont want to tell her when she asks me. Any advice?
Virginia
Virginia: Well, you can try. And theres a lot of love in the trying.
I suggest you be honest about both with your sister. Stress thrives in uncertainty, and she has a lot of that right now: She has one-big-happy-family expectations shes…
