Little steps needed to get through divorce



December 5, 2019 - 10:19 AM

Dear Carolyn: I am devastated. Husband has asked for a divorce, and I haven’t been able to change his mind. I’ve been begging, crying and pleading with him to stay. Of course he says that’s making it worse. It’s also making me somewhat embarrassed for myself.

Why not just let him go if he doesn’t want to be here? There’s no one else involved, but some bad choices on my end have led to his decision.

I just don’t know what to do. I fly out to work this evening. .?.?. I’m a flight attendant so I don’t even trust I can work without breaking down. Unfortunately, I can’t call out. I’ve just taken nearly two weeks off as it is. We’d planned a trip to Hawaii next week, but he has said he’s not coming with me. I’m going on the trip, but it won’t be the same.

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