I doubt Ill ever get the opportunity to meet Joe Biden to know if he would greet me with a hug, but judging by some, it wouldnt be out of character.
The trouble with todays media, however, is that it replays a few awkward moments a million times and suddenly someone is a lech especially if theyre running for president, which Biden has all but officially declared.
During his 50 years in public office Bidens character was never cast in doubt. And plenty of high-powered women have recently risen to his defense after a few women have stated his overly friendly manner made them uncomfortable.
Biden is tactile. He likes to give just about anyone a hug, peck on the cheek, and yes, theres the impulsive shoulder rub administered to German Chancellor Angela Merkel.
Susan Rice, former National Security Advisor, via twitter said that Biden was always warm and affectionate with women (and men.) But never have I found his actions inappropriate or uncomfortable.
Most importantly, Rice continued, I know [Biden] to be a dedicated ally, champion and defender of women and all of our rights. There is no one I would rather be with in a foxhole.
As an outspoken feminist, thats quite an endorsement.
EVEN SO, Bidens affectionate ways are not appropriate.
Too many women have had to endure overly friendly men who think a kiss on the mouth is entirely appropriate. Its not. Nor is an arm slipped around the waist or a pat on the behind. And for too long, women have been expected to accept such moves as if theyre perfectly natural.
The #MeToo movement is empowering women to say these uninvited gestures that border on intimacy are nothing short of harassment, plain and simple.
And thank goodness Bidens eyes have been opened.
In a video posted Wednesday, Biden said, I get it. Ive heard what these women are saying. Politics to me has always been about making connections, but I will be more mindful about respecting personal space in the future. Thats my responsibility and I will meet it.
Nancy Pelosi, Speaker of the House, and a good friend of Bidens, suggested he greet people as if they have a cold. That is, extend an outstretched hand. And if they pull you in, then you can reciprocate in fashion, if you want.
Peoples space is important to them, she said.
DOES THIS mean Biden is unfit for president?
Notwithstanding the fact that hes 76, Bidens still got all his marbles and would be by far the most qualified candidate.
