Dear Carolyn: My 40-year-old brother posts often on Facebook about how lousy our father was, and our 70-year-old father often replies to his posts with complaints about how ungrateful my brother is. I find it all hurtful but dont believe anything I can say would make the situation better.
I also find it kind of embarrassing that some of my friends see all this. Is there anything I can do to find my own peace of mind amidst this drama? Family Fight
Answer: To their faces: How old are you two? Isnt it time you aired grievances in person like adults, and not through adolescent party fights on Facebook?