Friends resent lifestyle changes after inheritance

A reader was able to make a few minor lifestyle changes — new car, different career — after inheriting some money. Some changes have not been well received by friends.

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September 11, 2023 - 3:15 PM

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Adapted from an online discussion.

Dear Carolyn: I recently inherited some money, enough to allow me to quit my job and buy a new car. Nothing flashy, just a nice, reliable vehicle. I’m now focused on doing some creative work that I’ve long wanted to do.

Some of my friends are jealous. Most of them don’t say anything about it to me directly, though one or two of them occasionally make snarky comments: “Well, if you can afford that kind of thing, fine.” I think in one case it has caused enough resentment that the friendship is not going…

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